Linda Lewis Griffith
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About Linda Lewis Griffith
Linda Lewis Griffith is a local marriage and family therapist. For information or to contact her, visit www.lindalewisgriffith.com .
What to do when you aren’t coping
San Luis Obispo County has had four insanity murder trials in the past year. Mental illness is once again in the news. But even with all the publicity, the problem is poorly understood. Christopher Shumey had a lengthy history of mental illness...
Linda Lewis Griffith
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Staying thin isn’t magical; it’s a medley of healthy habits
Thin people don’t just count calories. They develop lifelong habits that enable them to maintain the correct weight. Their strategies are as varied as the healthy folks who employ them. Still, there’s a gym bag full of suggestions we can use to tip the scales our way:
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Mothers: Treat yourself like the star you are
Everyone will be honoring Mom this Sunday. Pancakes and coffee will be delivered to her bedside. Cards will arrive from grown kids out of town.
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
How to reduce stress for the overachieving student
Mega students are those boys and girls who excel in nearly every aspect of their high school careers. They earn supercharged GPAs, edit school newspapers, play several varsity sports. They set their sights on elite universities. They’re the crème-de-la-academic-crème.
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
How to end your unhealthy relationship
The 30-something woman sat dejected in my office. She’d been involved with her boyfriend for eight years, but she expressed deep concerns about their relationship. She reported he was often angry, that he accused her of being unfaithful and that he frequently drank too much beer. She had ...
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Arguing in circles
Circular arguments are those relational spats that go round and round without ever being resolved. For instance, a woman might say to her husband, “You’re always late.” He responds, “You nag me too much.” She says back, “Then be ready next time.” ...
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
When ADHD grows up
A recent study published in the journal Pediatrics reports that two-thirds of children diagnosed with ADHD continue to have symptoms into adulthood. A problem that was once thought to disappear with maturity not only interferes with adult sufferers’ functioning but is often accompanied by...
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Clean up the clutter
Want to understand how people really think? Peek into the inner sanctums of their lives. A woman whose purse looks like a trash bag ready for the dumpster is most likely feeling scattered and overwhelmed. A man whose underwear drawer is a jumble of mismatched socks and holey BVDs probably takes ...
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Beating sex addiction
Sexual addiction is any sexually related compulsive behavior that interferes with an individual’s ability to function on a daily basis. It impacts an estimated 12 million people in the United States. And the numbers are rapidly growing.
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Grown up but still stuck
Many parents grapple with their underperforming grown offspring. A 42-year-old son may be unable to hold a job and continue asking his folks for money. A 30-year-old daughter continually hooks up with unstable partners, then moves home with her toddler in tow.
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LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH
Forget the excuses
As I stood in line at the grocery store last week, I overheard a man say to the checker, “Go ahead and charge me for the bag. I never remember to bring mine.” The checker smiled and replied, “I have a trunk full of grocery bags myself. I always forget to bring them in.”


