Planning a wedding can be fun. But its difficult to
juggle your career, go shopping, hire suppliers and
stay on budget. Its even more complicated if you
live in one city, but your wedding is in another.
Fortunately, wedding consultants and directors are
ready to lend a hand.
Wedding consultant
If you need someone who knows the
ins and outs of planning weddings, look for
a wedding consultant. For these experts,
organizing a wedding is routine and
they can do it within your budget.
While services vary, a wedding consultant
usually offers one-stop shopping for
busy brides. You decide what you want
handled just a few details or the entire
event and your consultant will do the
legwork. This professional knows the best
suppliers, such as florists, caterers and DJs,
and knows where youll get the best value
for your dollar. A wedding consultant can
track down a site for your ceremony and
reception and can attend your rehearsal,
ceremony and reception so you dont have
to worry about organizing the events or
solving last-minute problems.
Hire your consultant early even a
year in advance. When you interview a consultant,
ask about references, experience
and fees. Typically, a consultant requires a
deposit and a contract. The fee is usually a
percentage of the total cost and is included
in the budget. Because youll be working
closely with your consultant, be sure youre
comfortable with this person.
Tell your consultant two things first: the
ideas youve collected and the budget you
can afford. Youll be able to know almost
immediately what will work and what
wont. You can adjust your plans, then let
your consultant handle the arrangements.
Wedding director
A wedding director focuses on the
rehearsal and the ceremony to ensure that
your wedding runs smoothly. While some
wedding consultants also provide directing
services, some directors are volunteers or
church or temple staff members who help
brides plan an appropriate worship service
and comply with regulations on flowers,
music and other concerns.
Some places of worship will not allow
an outside wedding director. If your church
or temple requires an in-house director
and youre working with a consultant who
also provides directing services, sort out
early on whos responsible for what. The
wedding director of a church or temple
generally has the last word on whether
your plans are acceptable.
Duties vary at each church, so ask your
director what can and cant be done for
you. Most, by the way, charge a fl at fee, but
some charges may differ depending on
what responsibilities are agreed upon. Ask.
Even if your wedding is being held at a
location other than a place of worship, it is
still important to have a wedding director.
These professionals are key to making sure
that everything goes as planned at your
wedding.
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